Considering that I am now an oblate and not a monk it tends to be a little more difficult to set aside some silent time. Let’s be honest – the TV remote is always in site, the iPhone always has something to notify you of, and life just sometimes gets in the way. This certainly do not mean that I cannot be a good oblate. It just means that I need to make a little more effort in finding the time to do certain things which relate to the spiritual life. We must remember that as oblates we promised to life out the Benedictine life, “in our situation in life.”
Since it is so difficult to find silent time I have started the practice of what I like to call Hermit Days. Once a month I pic a particular day over the weekend and set that as my Hermit Day. From the moment I get up there is no contact with others except when charity requires it. My phone is on vibrate and the TV stays off. This is a day of silence.
Typically, I will delve more into the Hours of the Divine Office, Lectio Divina, and more than anything else, take the time to simply be silent and listen. There really is no set plans for the day other than prayer and allowing myself to be open to listening to what God wishes to say to me in the chaos of the world.
Now, I say that this is what typically happens because this past Saturday was my Hermit day and what happened was this – Lauds (Morning Prayer) and then sleep until about noon! Yep, I prayed a little and then took a very long nap. Some might think that this hermit day was wasted because of the sleep but I certainly do not. I’m typically plagued by insomnia even though it has gotten better over the past year. I hate taking naps and typically feel horrible after doing it but this time I actually listened to my body and did what was needed.
Some may think that this was just useless and yet St. Therese of Liseux used to fall asleep during the Divine Office (which if any religious is honest they will tell you they’ve done it before…I fell asleep during the Office as a monk! It’s just human nature. That’s the beauty of God! He can work on us and commune with us even when we are asleep!
We must not allow these things to turn into our being lazy and using it as an excuse yet we need to realize that God is also speaking to us through out bodies, telling us what we need and when we need it. This time I apparently needed sleep! Did it help my spiritual life at all? I have faith that it did because God can do all things.
I cannot recommend enough the need to have a Hermit Day or something like it in one’s life. For me it is a must! Even if you take an hour or two just to listen to God throughout the day! Start small and work your way up. See what works best for you and your living/working situation in life. I know that it has done good for me physically, spiritually and emotionally.
We all need to take time away to be with God. We see Jesus doing this all throughout the gospels. The Apostles are always finding him at night off in some place communing with God. Doing so is a must in the spiritual life. If we want to spend eternity with God in heaven then why are we not trying to spend more time with him here on earth?